You’re exactly right that it’s almost more the ritual (including making the cocktail) than the actual alcohol. I too find myself drinking sparkling water in a fun glass with a lime or lemon to make it seem “fancier”. Although I’m missing the red wine and there isn’t really a great substitute for that! With the recent attention on mocktails in restaurants, it at least is making it easier to find a fun drink when out to feel part of the “crowd”.